Our Intimate
ChoicesTM

Where two become one...

The Pure Bed presents
Our Intimate Choices Marriage Events-A Unique Christian Experience

 Our Mission

To expose married Christian couples to Biblical principles regarding marriage and sexual choices; to promote the church's role in preparing couples to experience healthy sexuality in marriage; to remove the shame, guilt and frustrations all too common to married couples concerning their sex lives.

Event Schedule

Choices Tele-Chat
Teleconference
Date: TBD
More Information
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Let Us Partner With You!Choices is a ministry underwritten and managed by the owner-operators of ThePureBed.com.  The ministry is intended to partner with the local church or other marriage ministries to deliver a message concerning God's design of and desire for marriage.  We uniquely speak to sexual intimacy to equip Christian couples to make sexual choices that align with their faith in Christ.

More information here.

Contact us if you have additional questions or concerns or desire to bring the Choices experience to your small group, church or other venue.

 contact@ourintimatechoices.com

(909) 576-9561

Welcome to Our Intimate Choices Marriage Events.  Our unique retreats, seminars and workshops are designed to lead married men and women in a discovery or rediscovery of those Biblical principles inspired to give guidance to our sexual choices, celebrate sexual creativity and promote intimate union through righteous sensuality.

We believe that marriage is an estate created by God for His glory and our benefit.  We believe that marriage is designed by God to unite one man and one woman for one of their lifetime.  Sexual intimacy is a gift from God to the institution of marriage.  There is no more appropriate situation for the best and most joyous expression of our sexuality than in a Christian marriage.

Our events are a candid exposition of sexual issues and how God speaks to them.  Whether your issues are concerning oral and anal sex, or your challenges are frequency and desire...Our Intimate Choices Marriage Events are designed to enhance and/or improve the Christian's marriage and sex life and to encourage sexual union that is creative, procreative and righteous!

What can you expect from an event?

  • Fellowship with other Christian couples committed to their faith and nurturing a healthy marriage
  • Facilitated discussions concerning what the Bible says about our marriages and our sexuality
  • Facilitated exercises that reinforce principles and practices to enhance communication and intimate interactions
  • Time to focus on your spouse and your marriage
  • Our respect for your privacy
Scheduled CME Events
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5 Pillars of Marriage
Webinar (online)
Register (No Charge)

Date: June 2, 2011
Time: 5 a.m. (Pacific Standard Time)

Topic
: 5 Pillars of Marriage

This is the first of 3 planned webinars in which ThePureBed.com will explore issues of sexual intimacy.  This first webinar intends to lay a foundation for the remaining two by:

  1. Exploring (5) areas of marriage that form the basis of the marriage's quality and viability.
  2. Exposing participants to a fresh vision of marriage and how it impacts the lives of those within and without it.

We believe that successful couples invest their energy in 5 areas: Shared Love, Shared Sacrifice, Shared Commitment, Shared Intimacy and Shared Vision.  These 5 areas have a dynamic relationship.  And much of the dysfunction, strife or struggles we experience in our marriages result from breakdowns in one of these 5 areas.

In our brief time together, we will provide an overview of how each of the 5 pillars help us maximize the experience and impact of our marriages.   Learn how a proper focus of our attention can impact sexual intimacy, communication, parenting and any other area of one's married life.

In subsequent webinars, we will narrow our focus to the ethics of sex from a Christian worldview.  However, the foundation of this first webinar will be essential in appreciating the principles shared in subsequent sessions.

 

 

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Choices™ Tele-Chat
Teleconference
Register (No Charge)

Date: TBD
Time: 10 a.m. and 7 p.m. Pacific Standard Time
Topic: The Ethics of Sex in Christian MarriagesCouple arguing

During this teleconference, questions concerning sexual practices, behaviors and attitudes in the Christian Marriage Bed will be addressed.

For nearly 5 years, The Pure Bed and Our Intimate Choices have received your issues, concerns and questions concerning sexual intimacy in your Christian Marriage and have consistently pointed to the authority of scripture to help you see God's hert for your sex life.  Now we are hosting live teleconferences to bring fresh vision to couples about what sex can be in their marriages.

our task is not to tell you what you can or can't do (beyond what scripture explicitly prohibits or permits.  It is to show you the principles of scripture and equip the Christian couples to make wise and Godly choices consistent with their commitments to Christ.

Register and join us on March 7 for an engaging and enrichening session and have your questions addressed!
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Have meetings like this at your church or with your group!


We would love to bring Our Intimate Choices™ Marriage Event to be hosted by your group of any size at a location of your choice.  Whether it is a workshop for a marriage conference, a small group meeting or another venue, CME is able to accommodate a range of settings to deliver a scripturally sound sex-positive message to God’s people.  Please contact us to negotiate a customized solution for your group or to talk more about the modules described below. 

Call (909) 576-9561 or email us at
contact@ourintimatechoices.com.  Costs can be negotiated.  If desired, CME can produce flyers and an announcement of your event on its website.

Module Descriptions

Module 1: Scripture Speaks: The Ethics and Quality of Married Sex

Description: CME exposes how Genesis 2 presents the roles and perspectives of males and females in an intimate sexual relationship.  CME also introduces 5 scriptural principles that promote health and fulfillment in sexual relationships among married Christian couples.  Duration: 1.5 hours + 20 minute Q&A

Module 2: Challenge to Change: Filling the Gap Between Wanting and Accomplishing Change

Description: CME introduces a simple and clear 4-step methodology for helping couples enhance, improve and repair every level of intimacy in their marriage.  CME exposes the assumptions that spouses make about each other and walks them through a process that will result in customized solutions for their change objectives. (This module covers steps 1 and 2.)  Duration: 1.25 hours + 20 minute Q&A

Module 3: Challenge to Change: Filling the Gap Between Wanting and Accomplishing Change

Description: CME introduces a simple and clear 4-step methodology for helping couples enhance, improve and repair every level of intimacy in their marriage.  CME exposes the assumptions that spouses make about each other and walks them through a process that will result in customized solutions for their change objectives. (This module covers steps 3 and 4.)  Duration: 1.25 hours + 20 minute Q&A

Module 4: Choices™ Marriage Experience

Description: CME presents each module above and…

·         Includes an ice-breaker event to start the event and exercises to facilitate couples understanding the strengths and weaknesses of how they communicate within their marriage

·         Includes Q&A session with facilitator

·         Includes soft (CD) copy for each couple of handouts, e-booklets and other material relevant to CME content

·         Includes product table to allow married couples to purchase romance items (such as candles, massage oils, relationship games) [Optional]

Facilitation Costs


Facilitated Discussions with married couples: $100 per discussion (Negotiable)
Module 1: $75-150 (Dependent upon attendance and venue)
Modules 2 & 3: $250-500 (Dependent upon attendance and venue)
Module 4: Please call. (Dependent upon attendance and venue)

Additional expenses may include travel and/or lodging for venues outside of Southern California (Los Angeles, Riverside and San Bernardino Counties).

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