The Pure Bed is to be a resource for ALL married men and women.  As a matter of course, however, the site is a reflection of our faith in God and our understanding of His will for intimacy in the context of marriage.  What follows is a basic description of our beliefs with respect to that will. 

We believe that God instituted marriage as a mechanism to reproduce and nurture life and to afford humanity a higher order of relationship that would be substantially representative of our relationship with Him. Marriage is the intimate union of two into oneness.  Marriage is the means by which family is created and nurtured.

"For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and they will become one flesh” (Gen. 2:24) is the understanding Adam has of God’s purpose for this new relationship he’s entered. This union is expressed uniquely during sexual intercourse when two bodies are joined together. The relationship is based on closeness…intimacy.

Tested by the ages, the family is the cornerstone of any sustained society.  When God's order is replaced, we experience a breakdown of society. God’s order is perfect, tested by time.  How can something perfect be made better? Adultery, divorce, promiscuity, and the breaking up of families all lead to unhappiness and are, often, the result of a discounting of the importance of marriage today.

If we accept the importance of marriage to the family structure, it stands that we must not ignore issues as they arise or lightly abandon marital relationships. We must also acknowledge that marriage IS NOT a primary means of happiness. Fulfillment in marriage is made possible by a realization of why marriage exists, a commitment to building strong relationships within the family, and recognition that personal spiritual, mental, and, even physical development are critical.

God instituted marriage as a mechanism to reproduce and nurture life and to afford humanity a higher order of relationship that would be somewhat representative of our relationship to Him.  Is everyone to be married?  No.  However, we believe that everyone who is to experience the blessings and benefits of family MUST be married to observe the best purposes of God, to afford the family unit optimal success.  We believe that marriage is the only appropriate context for sexual intimacy in God's sight.

Some Bible references:

Read Gen. 2:18-24, Matthew 19:4-6, Eph 5:31-6:3. How and why God created marriage.

Read I Corinthians 13, and Titus 2:1-8. Nurturing family.

Read Song of Solomon (entire Bible book) and I Corinthians 7:1-9. Intimacy.

Join The Choices Home Party Program!

The Pure Bed has developed a new program that is unique and gives married Christian wives (perhaps husbands) a chance to minister and earn money.

You may have heard of and/or attended home parties where products are introduced and sold.  We are developing a similar distributorship system where enterprising Christian wives can minister about intimacy in marriage and have their own business as a distributor for The Pure Bed.  Our program will train wives to setup 'home parties' for married women!

We have heard from so many of you who are already distributors for other companies but struggle with providing sexual wares to unmarried clients.  You also want to be free to minister as well as provide your products.  The uniqueness of our program will be the ability of women to minister to other women about Biblical principles of sexuality that can enhance intimacy in their marriage.  As a Choices Consultant, you will manage your own business presenting products and earning commissions.  This opportunity promises to be the perfect situation for stay-at-home-moms and working wives who want to make extra money.  The earning opportunity can be quite lucrative or just a great supplement for the grocery and gas budget.  Your expectations and efforts will determine the scope of your success!

Additionally, our long term goal is to have husband-wife teams ministering and marketing to other couples.  We believe that the Christain community is increasingly accepting of messages about positive sexuality in a world that treats sex like a handshake! 

Our program gives the Christian Choices Consultant a competitive edge in that she (they) will serve a niche market (married Christians) and sell products that are better priced than currently offered by the other Home Party systems.

If you are interested, please go here for more information.